Jul
I became one of the ppl. I never thought I would become. Always thought the women who made men the center of their universe and catered to their guys were sad creatures. in a way it's pathetic, I'm not young anymore (turned 30 this year) and I'm just nuts about my husband still (even after 9 years). He has to travel a lot and I should be used to it by now, but i'm not. this particular time is difficult since he just left although it'll only be for a short while. unfortunately, when he returns I have to go elsewhere and take care of things..I do have hobbies and friends to do things with, but being separated still hurts. so until he comes back I'm thinking the only way I have the ability to deal easily w/ this time period is to make myself care less about him. Yes, it's selfish. but it's only temporary since I can't even remain upset with him for more than 1/2 day. so caring less for him will never be permanent…but if it can be done and you've accomplished that, how did you do it?
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i know exactly how u feel and how badly u want to get him out of ur mind when he is traveling.
the thing is, its impossible to do that, but on the other hand its possible to do stuff that makes u think of him less often, make urself busy, get busy making urself more beautiful (believe me it sets ur mood upppp);)
u stated u have friends and stuff but i dont know if u work or not, if not, then try to start any kind of private business that suits married women, u can do that with a close friend too. the feeling of accomplishing something is amazing and it will make u feel that ur life doesnt revolve only around ur husband and bit by bit u will begin thinking about what u wanna do next not only missing him.
one more thing, why dont u start thinking about the pros of him traveling a lot, for instance i bet this is what keeps ur love alive and makes u think ur acting like a teenager:) (although its adorable u know) 
many couples are inseperable and this brings many fights, misunderstandings…etc.
so look at the bright side sweetie and try to think of urself more than u think about him at least while he isnt around.
best of luck
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Awe. You just love him soooo much. Just be glad you’re feeling that way other than feeling happy that he IS gone for business…. just charish the time you have with him when you two are together. I don't think you will be able to “miss him less” on purpose. You can't control your feelings.
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Why don't you talk to a military wife or join a military support group… cause the wives of the men in the military can give you some pointers on how to deal with being seperated from your loved one. Oh and 30 is not old!!!!!! ^_^
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Are you serious? Grow up and take your relationship and the responsibilities that come with it more like an adult. Your husband should be your best friend. Plan time with him when you two are together. It can’t be simple for him either.
Good Luck
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you cant care for someone less and turn it on and off like a swich. you need to find a better way to cope with your seperation anxiety. maybe meds? try asking your physician
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The key is to still communicate. Take advantage of technology. E.G. cell phone, email, text mesg.
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he is 100% cheating on you
remember my word
he is cheating
and probebly married if his not yet by then he ll be.
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