Sep
and just be know that you cant just leave i know there is nothing called cant but that situation is like that
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actually Rieko and 7oda both presented the most possible situations for your story: both involves what can is called as “Mind Games”.. and people who do them are called “Toxic friends Or co-workers” because all what they do is to impose their poisons into your mind and toxic ate your thinking pattern toward everything even toward your self.
Mind games like:
1-criticizing your movie choices all the time (what, you really like this motion picture!!),
2-or social response to any situation (you shouldn’t look at him this way),
3-or trying to impose their ethical attitude toward things with a remark that you’re not ethical (or religious) as them (for example when s/he criticize ppl who work in banks while he is totally aware that you work in a bank)
4-Or making fun of you in front of others (friends or co-worker) and just state came one we are just joking, (as 7oda mentioned)
5- or even worse: cause you harm in your work: like examples 7oda mentioned too. or in your personal life, like setting up you and your beloved one in a trap of conflict
Sometimes you can not leave them because of work conditions, or because of sharing residence as in a student campus or through your vacation.
The ideal way: really is to face him/her with your rejection. Don’t express how you feel, because s/he knows about and this what makes him/her satisfied.
Ignore him/her. And stop talking with him/her. And when s/he asks you what is happening my “friend”? say: it is ok, good morning.
Don’t feel bad about that: those ppl actually are pathetic and they do this because they’re so vulnerable inside so they use this offensive technique…
and most probably lack the existence of ongoing relationship from their childhood school days.. I m sure of that. They all have only new friends. No school friends no college friends.
And they were raised by their stupid families to always take advantage over others no matter how this will make them suffer.
or maybe they didnt get any kind of benefit or love during their adulthood life and just want to vent their mesiry over others now.
Don’t feel bad about your self
Feel sadness that there are people who are venting their inner insecurity toward others this way. Selfish ppl who lack any sense of sympathy toward others.
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Ok, I comprehend also your question, you mean that there is someone that is making you hate yourself and your life, and you want to leave him but you can't, lets state for example he is your dad or husband.
I was exactly like you few months ago, I was living with one of my best friends, but his way and his life affect me, also his mood,
Can you envision for example that he doesn't want to speak to me, he just come home, go to his room, and then i don't see him, he is having depression since we were in college together, anyway, lets not talk a lot about him, but he really affected me, and affected my mood, and i start to feel bad about everything, but thanks God i'm back living with my family now,
About your case, as you can't leave, I think you can try to go out with friends, or read or try to help him getting out of that mood (I tried more than 10 years with my friend but he doesn't want to change) ,
Lets state he is your Father and you can't leave him of course, so my advice is try to help him and support him, but when he begin to spread negative thoughts or give you words which makes you feel bad or sad or depressed, then don't listen to him, and take it as a joke,
I wish you all the best, you are one of our dear friends here, God bless you.
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I got your question
listen sister ,
what you’ll say about a employer on your work was good with you as he gave you all his secrets and like to talk with you but one day he told you don’t save his number as we were not his friend …… what will be your reaction ?
and so my reaction was treated him in official way and he asked why this treatment ?so I remind him with about not caring to be my friend so he made me as a child who is sad for not having a friend …….
then he did a trap for me to quit from work as he asked to see my Signature then he took it as acceptation from quiting from work ……
he make an stupied jokes and said” you’re not a normal guy as you not accepting jokes ”
this guy really made me hate myself besides a lot of troubles in that work as no appreciation and no cooperation with a lot of doing traps on work between the employers and each others
so do not give up and look forward as you’re not the first one who was injured from a jerk person who does not deserve your attention or your interest and make problems for me to leave the work so I decided to leave it this day as a angre as they are not deserve my attention anymore
consider it you’re the ideal and keep on
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I think I understand what you are saying…but I don't know how to answer because I don't know the details….so I will ask you some questions…
Has this been happening a long time…or you are just feeling this now?
What is it that you would like to feel instead of how you feel now?
I mean what do you wish you can be like?
email me if you want…I hope you feel superior 8^)
*Edit*
My ideal guess (because i don't know the story) is to tell you to ignore anyone being negative..concentrate in yourself until you are happy…pray, take extra care for yourself, talk to good friends and family, when this person is being mean or makes you sad….remove yourself from the room.
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More explanation would of been helpfull in giving an thought. Are you in a family a marriage?
Myself I'd try to ignore them as much as possible whilst still giving them the necessary courtesy-” Hi! nice day”, “how are you today”.
Then I'd try to keep out of their way and sight as much as possible.
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Listen! Clarify your Question and it's additional information so that we have the ability to giver you the answer you want!
Your Q aint clear!
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huuuuhhh?????
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WOOOT 2pts, what?
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What is the question again??
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I'm so sorry, but I can't really comprehend what your question is. :[
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im sorry but i dont get ur question can u add some details?
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